Is It Really Love?: Teen Dating Violence

Teen dating violence is real, and it affects more teens than many people realize. In fact, one in three teens experiences some form of abuse in a dating relationship. Dating violence isn’t always physical. While it can include hitting, shoving, scratching, sexual abuse, or stalking, it can also be emotional, which can be just as harmful.

Emotional abuse may look like name-calling, constant criticism, controlling who someone talks to, embarrassing them in public, or repeatedly checking their phone and social media. Abuse can happen both in person and online, using texts, apps, or social platforms to pressure, threaten, or control someone.

Teen relationships often begin before young people fully understand emotions, boundaries, and healthy communication. Strong feelings, jealousy, and stress can sometimes lead to unhealthy behavior. Warning signs include depression, anxiety, aggression, substance use, and pulling away from friends and family.

If a relationship makes you feel afraid, controlled, or hurt, that is not love. You are not alone, and help is always available. Speaking up can protect you and others.

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South Carolina ETV and Public Radio (SCETV) are participating in a yearlong partnership with the South Carolina Coalition Against Domestic Violence and Sexual Assault (SCCADVASA) on an initiative called South Carolina Speaks: Focus on Domestic Violence. SCETV and SCCADVASA will work together to raise awareness and educate the public over the next year through multiplatform coverage.